Quotes from the Classics: June
Happy Solstice, everyone! We’re really in the swing of it now! If you’re in the northern hemisphere, you know all the people are doing all the things. Air conditioners are running full speed even as we venture out to birthday parties, barbecues, and lakeside picnics. It can be so fun and it can also be uber exhausting if we don't pace ourselves. If you’re like me, you can benefit greatly from saying yes to things that light you up AND the most beautiful no you can muster to things that don’t. See my May post for more on that. I don’t always get it right but when I come close, I’m able to enjoy this season of full bloom so much better!
Happy Solstice, everyone! We’re really in the swing of it now! If you’re in the Northern Hemisphere, you know all the people are doing all the things. Air conditioners are running full speed even as we venture out to birthday parties, barbecues, and lakeside picnics. It can be so fun and it can also be uber exhausting if we don't pace ourselves. If you’re like me, you can benefit greatly from saying yes to things that light you up AND the most beautiful NO you can muster to things that don’t. See my May post for more on that. I don’t always get it right but when I come close, I’m able to enjoy this season of full bloom so much better!
Flowers and bubbles by Raquel Hamner The_Candid
Besides being a time when pacing is a must, June feels like such a turning point because, well, it is. Hate to be a downer, folks, but the year is nearly half over. What?! Dang! While it’s crazy to think the minutes have ticked by that quickly, we’re not shopping for Christmas gifts just yet. It’s actually a really good time to check in with what you wanted to accomplish at the beginning of the year. The blueprint for the plant is in the seed and now that the seeds are starting to show themselves, we can see where we’ve been spending our precious time and what we’ve been nurturing. Is it what you intended? Are you surprised? Did you consciously choose or are your unconscious intentions running the show?
June asks us to look and face reality (which can sometimes take courage), to review and reassess, to celebrate the wins so far, and to course correct if necessary. It’s also fraught with hope because it reminds us there is still an opportunity to become who we are meant to be. There is always that opportunity. Here are some quotes from the classics to keep you inspired:
“The timeless in you is aware of life’s timelessness. And knows that yesterday is but today’s memory and tomorrow is today’s dream.”
“And so with the sunshine and the great bursts of leaves growing on the trees, just as things grow in fast movies, I had that familiar conviction that life was beginning over again with the summer.”
“If the day and night be such that you greet them with joy, and life emits a fragrance like flowers and sweet-scented herbs, is more elastic, more immortal - that is your success.”
“Green was the silence, wet was the light, the month of June trembled like a butterfly.”
“In early June the world of leaf and blade and flowers explodes, and every sunset is different.”
“Spring flew swiftly by, and summer came; and if the village had been beautiful at first, it was now in the full glow and luxuriance of its richness. The great trees, which had looked shrunken and bare in the earlier months, had now burst into strong life and health; and stretching forth their green arms over the thirsty ground, converted open and naked spots into choice nooks, where was a deep and pleasant shade from which to look upon the wide prospect, steeped in sunshine, which lay stretched out beyond. The earth had donned her mantle of brightest green; and shed her richest perfumes abroad. It was the prime and vigour of the year; all things were glad and flourishing.”
“It was June, and the world smelled of roses. The sunshine was like powdered gold over the grassy hillside.”
Love in all things,
April Eileen
P.S. I don’t know if we’d consider that last one a classic but it’s just so dang pretty. ;-)
Tea Time
“No matter where you are in the world, you are at home when tea is served.” — Earlene Grey
Y’all, I have very few rituals that don’t involve tea. I work, pray, meditate, journal, create, and have my deepest conversations with tea; and when I stopped drinking alcohol (IKR), I doubled down on my favorite herbal infusions. In short, tea drinking is my jam. The steam coming off a piping hot cup instantly creates space for me to breathe for a moment. Join me! Here are some tips to make the most of your tea time...
“No matter where you are in the world, you are at home when tea is served.”
Tea, book, and flowers by Ioana Motoc
“There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea.” Henry James, Portrait of a Lady. Y’all, I have very few rituals that don’t involve tea. I work, pray, meditate, journal, create, and have my deepest conversations with tea; and when I stopped drinking alcohol (IKR), I doubled down on my favorite herbal infusions. In short, tea drinking is my jam. The steam coming off a piping hot cup instantly creates space for me to breathe for a moment. I hope you’ll spend some time relaxing too, even if it’s just a half hour. Here are some tips to make the most of your tea time:
My Top 5 Tea Time Tips:
Light a candle because what are you even doing if you’re sipping tea without a candle?
Warm up your feet. I don’t know what it is but a change of clothes for my feet seems to usher in an immediate shift in the way I feel. Simply putting on soft socks or cozy slippers morphs the energy. And I always turn on my space heater for an added boost.
Smell. Right after I’ve steeped my tea, I like to pull the cover off and deeply inhale. It’s a way to get thrust instantly into mindfulness.
Listen to music. I made a playlist just for you!
Settle in and read a bit of something beautiful. Here are 10 of my favorites (though I reserve the right to edit this list often, as I read all the time):
The Invitation, Oriah Mountain Dreamer
Braiding Sweetgrass, Robin Wall Kimmerer
Bella Grace Magazine (any issue)
Edge of Wonder, Victoria Erickson
Your Soul is a River, Nikita Gill
I Heard God Laughing, Hafiz
Tiny Beautiful Things, Cheryl Strayed
The Enchanted April, Elizabeth Von Arnim
The Secret Garden, Frances Hodgson Burnett
Their Eyes Were Watching God, Zora Neale Hurston
Please note, these tips are solely for the unpretentious - the tea sippers that swoon at pretty blends, lovely names, and fragrant smells; may or may not steep their tea properly; love honey way too much; and have absolutely no clue about the difference between afternoon and high tea (I had to look it up). Enjoy!
Love in all things,
April Eileen
Quotes from the Classics: May
We are in full swing, folks! The showers did in fact bring flowers and maybe some frenzy too. May showcases full-on evidence that we are alive - the bustle, the to and fro, the busy. There are coffee dates to be had, lighter clothes to pull out of storage, and plenty of weeds to pull and while I agree wholeheartedly with Wayne Dyer - “the difference between a flower and a weed is a judgment,” - I still spent three hours last week searching for lettuce and carrot sprouts.
We’re here, we’re alive, we’re excited AND we’re down on the ground, tending, sometimes taxed, and day-to-daying too. If you’re like me (the most introvertive extrovert any of you know), you couldn’t be more pleased about the sunshine and you might also be secretly dreading that dinner party or missing those quiet evenings of journaling and reflection. What a conundrum.
And, we’re off to the races! The showers did in fact bring flowers and maybe some frenzy too. May showcases full-on evidence that we are alive - the bustle, the to and fro, the busy. There are coffee dates to be had, lighter clothes to pull out of storage, and plenty of weeds to pull and while I agree wholeheartedly with Wayne Dyer - “the difference between a flower and a weed is a judgment,” - I still spent three hours last week searching for lettuce and carrot sprouts.
We’re here, we’re alive, we’re excited AND we’re down on the ground, tending, sometimes taxed, and day-to-daying too. If you’re like me (the most introvertive extrovert any of you know), you couldn’t be more pleased about the sunshine and you might also be secretly dreading that dinner party or missing those quiet evenings of journaling and reflection. What a conundrum.
No fear! We get to be both. We can be excited and expansive and abundant and also take care of ourselves. It just takes a little bit of adulting - not the 9-5 job adulting but the I-am-40-years-old-and-actually-this-is-my-life variety. We can be choicy and deliberate and work with this quickly rising May energy to do and make and be and grow whatever we want. We can listen to ourselves and be cognizant of when we need to take a break or move or drink some water. And we can leverage the dreaded NO.
I’ve heard this a million times before and still felt anxiety or the need to lie and make something up every time I was confronted with the need to say no. Of course, more self-Love was a game-changer and part of that journey included more focus on my yesses. My desires and wants are legit, gifted by the Universe, and really important to the thread of humanity. Sounds epic but I believe it now. If I hold my yesses that way, it leaves little room for stuff I don’t want to do. Think about it. “Guys, I can’t do the thing because I’m planning something cool for my new business! Or I’m doing this new meditation I found ! Or <insert other really fun, really exciting thing, requiring an exclamation point at the end of the sentence, HERE>!
It’s exponentially easier to say no when you’re excited about something else. So, what do you want? Who do you want to be? What do you want to create? Let’s be like the ants and get some stuff done, well, maybe with a little grasshopper fun too! Check out the quotes below that are certainly part of larger works but also capture May’s unique essence and energy, and also some things I would definitely say yes to. Enjoy!
Bee by Boris Smokrovic
“Come to the orchard in Spring. There is light and wine, and sweethearts in the pomegranate flowers.”
“To see a World in a grain of sand
And a Heaven in a wild flower,
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour. ”
“And the secret garden bloomed and bloomed and every morning revealed new miracles.”
“Earth laughs in flowers.”
“Nobody sees a flower - really - it is so small it takes time - we haven’t time - and to see takes time, like to have a friend takes time.”
“It’s a spring fever. That is what the name of it is. And when you’ve got it, you want to—oh, you don’t quite know what it is you do want, but it just fairly makes your heart ache, you want it so!”
“She was stretched on her back beneath the pear tree soaking in the alto chant of the visiting bees, the gold of the sun and the panting breath of the breeze when the inaudible voice of it all came to her. She saw a dust-bearing bee sink into the sanctum of a bloom; the thousand sister-calyxes arch to meet the love embrace and the ecstatic shiver of the tree from root to tiniest branch creaming in every blossom and frothing with delight. So this was a marriage! ”
Love in all things,
April Eileen